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Hey there Mijos and Mijas! Thanks for dropping by!

I really *try* to update my journal every day. Sometimes every day becomes every week. But I will always try really hard to be worth your wait.

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For those of you who read this blog but do not have a Live Journal account, thanks for the emails! I love getting those and knowing you are out there! And if you have a blog account at another site, please let me know!

And feel free to grab a chair and put your feet up...the margaritas will be ready shortly!
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Jul. 17th, 2009 @ 04:03 pm (no subject)
If you saw ME in the back of a police car what would you think I got arrested for?

(and post this in your own journal)
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Jul. 17th, 2009 @ 03:14 pm (no subject)
`I haven't updated but I really haven't had much to say. Which isn't to say I haven't had alot going on. But nothing that makes for a fun, blog story. It seems that my a/c is functional again (with no payment for the house call, god bless hungry single men who took a sandwich as payment) and tonight I'm going out with the family and the gang to a local eatery that serves local foods and has a play area. Tomorrow is a friend's retirement party. I'm just marking down time until I start back to school, can't wait!
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Jul. 9th, 2009 @ 05:40 pm Politics, The Law, and Habits of Thought
So I finished a book by D.L. Birchfield that is about Indian political policy and law (specifically, the Choctaw, but not just the Choctaw). In it he talks about law not being the product of Supreme Court decrees and other nebulous, esoteric stuff but about being a product of culture, and habit of thinking. And that as habit of thinking changes, so does the law.   I'm paraphrasing because I don't have the book in front of me.  He said it better, but you get the idea.

And while he doesn't mention this, it also explains why laws that are before their time (Brown v. Board of Education, or more germane to this discussion, Loving v. Virginia) often fail in practice unil the surrounding culture changes to meet up the law.

We are having the opposite problem right now, and I think it goes a long way to explain our current civil unrest. Currently 67% of the population in the U.S. supports either marriage or civil unions for GLBTQ couples (Source) but the law is so far, far, far from catching up to our own, middle-American, habit of thought.

At best, the law should be there to push us to our better selves (see Brown and Loving, above). At average, it should represent the will of the people and the appropriate dominant culture. And right now it is neither.

Go Massachusettes for upping the ante this week.

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Jul. 2nd, 2009 @ 07:00 pm (no subject)
...prepping for my RA interview with my mad research skillz.
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Jul. 1st, 2009 @ 07:10 pm (no subject)
I have a research assistantship interview schedled for next week. It may start even earlier than the semester starts but I switched to a flex, pool schedule at work so I can accomodate that. It's a very competitive slot since it is a federally funded grant and UTSA is shaky on state money (moreso than other schools which is a long, boring story). I'm the only first year doc student even being invited to apply so I should say it's an honor to be nominated. Especially with my weak-ass vita. I've been studying up on the professors research and what she is using in this study so I can at least look like I've got skillz. Wish me luck. I'm so burned out in community mental health it's unfunny.
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Jun. 27th, 2009 @ 01:55 pm Trying to keep the fat balanced.
So my brother's boyfriend took a picture of me a couple of weeks ago that made me go "gah!"

I know I'm a big girl, always have been. However I am a less big girl after starting the GI diet a couple years ago and had been really good at keeping the weight off. Until this past late spring/early summer and it's concurrent work drama made me gain a few pounds back and all the new clothes I just broke down and purchased a few months before that arn't fitting right. The pockets are puckering and, as the aforementioned picture shows, I started rolling over my shorts again.

Essentially I gained about 5 or so pounds back (that's my guess, I don't have a scale at home or I would sit on it and cry and obsess) and all in my stomach. So my clothes, my lovely new clothes, are looking like crap on me.

So today at the grocery store I bought Atkins shakes for breakfast and lunch and sugar free popsicles and jello. I'm going to be a miserable bitch, but the only thing I hate worse than dieting is wasting money. And I had worked too hard to make those clothes look good, dammit.

Please excuse my supreme crabbiness over the next few weeks. I guarantee I will be.
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Jun. 21st, 2009 @ 07:31 pm (no subject)
I'm back from our version of camping (which involves an air-conditioned cabin). We are all sunburnned (despite the suncreen) and tore up the bottoms of our swimsuits on the Ingram Dam. Pics on Facebook!
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Jun. 13th, 2009 @ 07:23 pm Where There's A Witch...
I know I have alot of witchy friends and ghost-hunting friends on my LJ, so for those of you who DON'T know, Madelyn Alt's newest book comes out this July, which I'm excited about because I usually don't get her latest release in my hands until November. I've been reading the series since the first book and it is my favorite paranormal-type series because as a boringly non-witchy, non-ghost-huntery person I feel like I learn more (plus enjoy a good cozy mystery) without feeling like I'm not one of the cool kids who doesn't get it.

Check out the author's site here: http://www.madelynalt.com/
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Jun. 12th, 2009 @ 08:34 pm Some damn funny.
Someone set my Deaf client's sidekick ringtone to really loud porn music. I'm afraid to ask who, in case it was a staff member.
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Jun. 9th, 2009 @ 07:09 pm (no subject)
A sandy pelican? For serious? People do that, like, on purpose? And enjoy it?

No, I will NOT explain it to you, you will have to look it up on urbandictionary.com yourownself if you really want to know.

And you probably really don't.
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Jun. 8th, 2009 @ 07:09 pm (no subject)
I just went to Wal Mart with a big spagetti sauce stain on my shirt. I almost fit right in, except I WAS wearing a bra.
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Jun. 3rd, 2009 @ 08:07 pm (no subject)
I've been working on an article that will eventually become part of my doc dissertation that has me really excited. It's about the counselor's role in promoting PHYSICAL health among Native Americans. It's specifically an issue because diabetes is cooccuring with depression and alcoholism and is also greatly due in part to the western diet (studies show that native americans that go back to an indiginous diet quickly regain their physical health). I'm interested in what counselors can do on both a micro and macro level...though the macro level is much harder and much less evidenced based. This is more Q's area so he's gonna help me.

It's nice to have a future based project to work on while my job has me down. I on purpose didn't take a new job since I knew I would be working at the University starting in the Fall but part of me is realy wishing I did now.

Also planning a trip with my baby brother to do some research in Choctawland later this summer. I want to make connections at the native-serving university that has a counseling program there (that I want to do some research at in a couple of years) and he wants to visit a bank an hour away in Dallas for his own thesis project. Of course TheNed now wants to go even though he HATES Choctawland with the passion of a thousand burning suns. He's afraid I might have fun without him, per usual. Like what I'm doing would be any interest to him, and there isn't anything else going on like what we usually visit for (annual meeting, powwow). We haven't had a fight about school in awhile, looks like one may due up soon.
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Jun. 3rd, 2009 @ 06:29 am (no subject)
One more summer in community mental health seems like more than I can take right now. Here's too hanging on for three more months.
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May. 30th, 2009 @ 03:49 pm (no subject)
If you are on Facebook and we are not yet friends on Facebook (and you would like to be) raise your hand.
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May. 27th, 2009 @ 08:00 pm The pimp, the therapist and the nonexistent medal
So Q and I have a friendly awesomeness competition going (it helps that I'm a counselor and he's a social worker...good rivalry). I called him yesterday to tell him I wanted half of a non-existant medal we fight over. Why? I talked a pimp/crack house proprietor into giving up his new girl (my client) so I could get her into rehab, even though she owes him money. He also called me ma'am.

Q: Nope, you don't get the medal for that. If I was a pimp I would give you whatever you asked for too. Maybe if you were some tiny little thing you would get the medal. Of course the pimp did what you said, you're scary.

GoP: I may not be thin, but I'm pretty tiny. And I drive a minivan. I'm a soccer mom fercrissakes.

Q: But a scary one. I've seen you mad. A pimp is not a worthy opponent.

GoP: I wasn't mad, I was very cordial.

Q: But still, a pimp's job is to know who's trouble and he could tell by your eyes that you're trouble. He isn't gonna fight someone he can't win. No medal.

GoP: I was wearing sunglassess. And really if I'm that scary, I'm just taking the medal. I want two. Gonna make earrings.

Q: Alright you can have one, but you have to cut it in half if you want earrings.

GoP: Ok, but chocolate too.

Q: Deal.
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May. 24th, 2009 @ 12:35 pm (no subject)
Both of my kids are slowly turning into locavores. Today, in two seperate conversations that didn't involve the other, Sam asked me where the cherries came from and Molly asked me if corn was in season yet so we could grill some.


In the "eat food, not too much, mostly plants" vein I'm having an artichoke for lunch. I grew up in central California so I can call Castroville as part of my foodshed.
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May. 21st, 2009 @ 04:55 am 2 of 4 Pets

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...and this is why I keep paying all those vet bills. For the record, this is Sam's cat, Tina Delorean Hopgrasser, and my recent rescue baby, Lucki Tripod. Not pictured is Ned's cat Selene, and Molly's dog Sally Mustang.
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May. 15th, 2009 @ 11:56 pm In Conversation
A few days ago I wore a tube topped maxi dress with spagetti straps to work (with a little cardigan, I'm not a complete hooker). You can see the hem of it in the picture of the shoes that I ruined in the rain tonight (I jinxed myself, dammit).

A coworker, Ms. E, was asking me about the dress. She is 60 years old and is the daughter of a preacher and the mother of one (I've heard her son preach at his father's funeral, he's an AMAZING preacher). She herself has an advanced degree in spiritual counseling. To call her deeply religious would be an understatement.

Two coworkers were listening in to our converastion.

Ms. E: Is that just your titties up in there?

GoP: Oh hell no, they would be rolling around on the floor like a pair of puppies. I'm wearing a strapless, see?

CoWorker 1: Wait, did Faith just show someone her bra?

CoWorker 2: Forget that, what else is new? Did Ms. E just actually say the word 'titties'?
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May. 15th, 2009 @ 06:52 pm Crazy Quilt

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Dear GDawg. This time I actually am I a little bit sorry. Cuz this one is so something you will love too. I've never seen a crazy quilt this big and I love it!
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May. 15th, 2009 @ 06:51 pm Poly Quilt

Poly Quilt
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Dear GDawg. I'm sorry. No, not really. But hey, at least I took a picture for you!
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